Life is like a movie. It's up to you to ensure a happy ending, but there's no such thing as a happy ending - it's all in your head..."Accept disappointment and you will never be disappointed."

The world is a puzzle and our stories are scripts for everyone to recite. Doing the right thing for yourself will bring happiness, even if you work for money to support your family.

In today's world, we strive to accumulate material possessions, such as the latest technology and lavish homes, while isolating ourselves from others with walls and gates. We display privacy signs to show off our success.

Everyone has problems, even those who seem to have everything under control. We can't ignore this truth, despite our efforts to shield ourselves from society's difficulties. Hidden challenges are common.

To find the answer, we must focus on our own problems and shift our priorities from accumulating possessions to what truly matters. We should examine ourselves and identify what is hindering us, causing us distress, and how we can enhance our lives.

Humans are flawed and make mistakes, but they have the ability to be resilient, learn from their mistakes, adapt to new conditions, and work together to solve difficult problems.

They can Identify and address personal, social, and global issues that hinder progress. Collaborate for solutions that benefit everyone. Remember that we are all human and have a role in making the planet better.

Why do people feel the need to share every aspect of their lives on social media with strangers?

Someone else had the same idea and turned it into a profitable business by filming people's daily stupidity and selling it. Surprisingly, people pay good money to watch others being foolish on camera.

People enjoy watching others express themselves on platforms like TikTok and Instagram, indicating a growing trend. This suggests that individuals may be seeking a distraction from their own lives.

Does this reflect our culture? Are we too self-absorbed that we rely on watching others to feel fulfilled? Or is it simply a harmless form of amusement that lets us both laugh at ourselves and connect with others?

The trend of people sharing their everyday foolishness on social media is not going away soon. We're all a little bored and in need of amusement.

This begs the question, "What are movies?" 

Life is a movie with episodes of people's lives, offering experiences of hate or love. Each person's life is a story that can be entertaining to those who relate.I remember growing up and being so excited for the seven o'clock news because we all wanted to know...

This dissatisfaction has sparked a sort of revolution, with individuals eager to spend  money to watch drivel and kill their boredom. Pornography, horror films, and violence are all appealing because they offer an escape from everyday life. I understand the temptation of retreating into a world where we can identify to others and their issues. As someone who enjoys movies and earns money to watch them. It's like a sneak peek into the future—a foreshadowing of what's to come.

The changing world will soon eliminate boredom for humans. While Kenya is in the year 2018, Korea has advanced to a point where everything is computerized. It's amusing because I grew up in a close-knit community in the ghetto where everyone knew everything about everyone else, including the wrongdoings of your own father which were often discussed during arguments to provide entertainment.

Does this imply that we were bored?

Movies contribute to making the world a better place by providing an outlet for chaos within a controlled environment. Rather than going out and causing chaos in real life, watching a movie can satisfy the urge for chaos without harming anyone, as the saying goes "an idle mind is the devil's workshop."

Throughout my entire life, my friends and family have been urging me to seek employment, taking into account everything that has been stated.Why should I search for a job and become a character in someone else's story when I have the opportunity to create my own story by sharing the experiences of other people's joys, sorrows, pride, lust, and desire for revenge?

Through this, I can demonstrate the futility of causing trouble or harming others out of selfishness. It is a fact that problems will always exist since the world has a population of 7.9 billion people, which translates to 7.9 billion problems, regardless of one's social status or standard of living. Therefore, instead of complaining, why don't we make our lives more interesting by creating

characters that represent our problems and observing them from a distance?

We are all different and we cannot please or help everyone. But we can try to understand and respect people, knowing that they have their own reasons for being and acting as they do. However, what matters most is to do what is good for us without hurting others.

Is this how you find some happiness? People feel hurt even if the message isn't meant for them.

Humans don't know what they want, which leads to causing issues and trouble. This creates a feeling of being stuck, but movies can help make people feel better.

In Game of Thrones, Arya wants to be a knight but society says women can only do domestic work. She doesn't let this stop her and stays true to herself even after her father is betrayed and killed. She ultimately kills the enemy who threatened everyone.

What impact does such a story have on your life?

My wife and I were having typical marital problems, but because of our different backgrounds, they seemed more challenging. Despite this, I love her and i handle it like an adult. A friend told me that if there's no fighting in a relationship, it's not working, which surprised me since he hasn't started a family yet.

I discovered a TV series called Fleishman is in Trouble, which my spouse and I watched together. It featured a Doctor experiencing communication problems with his wife, and we learned a lot from it. Since that day, it felt like our therapy.

In the series to have a good relationship, address the four negative behaviors called the "four horsemen of divorce." criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Criticism refers to attacking a partner's character or personality, while contempt involves expressing disrespect or disgust towards them. Defensiveness occurs when a person feels attacked and tries to protect themselves, and stonewalling is when a person withdraws from the conversation and shuts down emotionally. These behaviors can be destructive to a relationship and increase the likelihood of divorce.

That gives rise to the big question: Did it really help?

In my opinion, the answer is yes, but the occasional argument still arises because we are human beings. However, the difference now is that the animosity during our fights is absent, and we make sure to resolve the issue and work on the underlying patterns after every argument.

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